Friday, August 29, 2014

words from the heart final draft

Word From The Heart Final Draft
     Yobo (yo-bo/yuh-bo) means darling, sweetheart or honey in Korean. Growing up I've always heard my parents say or call each other yobo but I never really knew what it meant until about the 6th or 7th grade.  But, it is one of the most special words to me and my family.
     The reason why my family and I say yobo is because my dad is part Korean.  His mom, my
grandma (or halmony as we call her) moved here from Korea when she was in her early 20's.   When my dad was growing up he would hear my halmony and grandpa calling each other that all the time.  Whether it was my grandpa saying "yuh-bo" to call my halmony for a favor or my halmony saying "yuh-bo" to thank my grandpa for cutting the grass, they commonly used the word daily.  So, it was used a lot when my dad was growing up and it eventually caught on to him and his brothers. And from the experience my dad had growing up hearing the word of affection all the time, "yuh-bo" easily carried over to our family.  We call each other "yuh-bo" sometimes too.  It's just a feel-good word.
     The way that my family uses the word yobo is not the same way that other people might use it.  They might or would use it as a derogatory term to classify Korean people. But my family uses it how it's supposed to be used.  We use it as a word to joke around, to appreciate someone helping another person in times of trouble or when someone is feeling down.  We just say "yuh-bo" because we love each other.
     This word is still used but not as much as it was used on a daily basis as when my dad and his brothers were growing up.  My halmony and grandpa still use it after 52 years of marriage.  That's a lot of "yuh-bo's" being said.  And, because of them, this is why "yuh-bo" is our family's word from the heart.

Friday, August 22, 2014

Word from the heart rough draft

     (yo-bo/yuh-bo) means darling/sweetheart/honey in Korean. It is most commonly used by married

couples. Growing up I've always heard my parents say or call each other yuh-bo but I never really

knew what it meant until about the 6th or 7th grade. But it is on of the most special words in my

family.

     The reason why my family and I say yuh-bo is because my dad is actually Korean, his mom, my

grandma (or halmony as we call her) moved here from Korea when she was in about her mid 20's .

But she still has some family living there. When my dad was growing up he would hear my halmony

and grandpa calling each other that all the time. So it caught on to him and his brothers. And from

the experience my dad had growing up of his parents calling each other yuh-bo all the time

transferred over to my family calling each other yuh-bo all the time too.

     The way that my family uses the word yuh-bo is not like the generation before us used it. They

would use it as a derogatory to classify Koreans. But my family uses it how its supposed to be used.

We use it as a word to joke around, to appreciate each others existence in times of trouble or when

someone is feeling down, or to say that we love each other no matter what.

     The reason why I chose to use the word yuh-bo to write about in this essay because its my favorite

word that my family uses just amongst each other, it is used very often, but it also has the most

meaning to me and my family, and we can use it in many different scenarios like I sad earlier.

But these are the reasons why I wanted to write about my family's word yuh-bo.